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I read an email on this episode that I’ve received versions of more times than I can count.
A senior IT manager — 47 years old, 22 years of experience, $150K salary — writes in and asks whether he’s having a midlife crisis or missing something.
He’s missing something.
The Professional Plateau
What Mark is experiencing isn’t burnout. Burnout is exhaustion. What Mark has is something different: he’s successful, and that success has quietly trapped him.
His income has grown. His title has grown. But his options have shrunk. His entire financial future now depends on one organization deciding to keep paying him. That gap — success without leverage — is what people call being stuck.
The Options Mark Didn’t See
Mark listed his options: stay put, find another job, maybe make $15K–$20K more somewhere else, or start a business he can’t afford. He thought that was the whole list. It’s not.
- Becoming known outside his current company
- Packaging what he already knows
- Taking one consulting engagement per month
- Teaching, speaking, or advising
- Building from 22 years of accumulated expertise
Not all of those are right for Mark. But he thought none of them existed. That belief — more than anything else — is what’s keeping him stuck.
What Most People Get Wrong
When people hear “you have more options,” they jump to: start a business, build passive income, monetize a hobby. Usually wrong as a starting point.
The first asset worth monetizing is almost always the expertise already in your head. The stuff that feels so routine you can’t see its value — that’s where the market is.
The First Move
If Mark called me, I’d ask three questions:
- What do you know how to do that feels so normal you’d assume nobody would pay for it?
- What problems have you solved repeatedly that other people struggle with?
- What could you do right now — without leaving your job — that would prove your knowledge has value outside one company?
Then I’d help him run one small experiment. Not a business. One workshop, one consulting call, one paid project. The first time someone who isn’t your employer pays you for what you know — everything changes.
The Bigger Point
A good salary and career security are not the same thing. A good salary means you’ve become expensive. If all your income depends on one organization, you’re not building options — you’re renting your career.
The goal isn’t to quit. The goal is to build enough options that you’re never trapped again.
Related episodes:
- Ep. 246 — How to Put a Dollar Value on What You Do
- Ep. 245 — The Contribution Audit
- Ep. 247 — The Hidden Cost of Staying in Your Job Too Long
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